When you manage to avoid the phone calls social media makes it worse! They can stalk you literally on Skype, send u messages on facebook, twitter, bbm chat and whatsap.
One went as far as asking my supervisor at work to help convince me to marry him.lol
The weird thing is they are usually the marrying kind if only I could say the magical yes word.
But I can't. Cos I hate it when a guy is all over me and I don't feel the same way.
Worse, they are usually convinced that they can change my mind. After a while they temporarily disappear and give me a sudden call months or years later convinced I would have seen reason and be euphoric at their reappearance.
No Way! If I didn't like you then,i wont like you in thirty years even if you come back as a potato. Lol!
When it comes to friendships I don't allow first impressions cloud my mind. I usually get to know and understand what kind of person you are and if we can get along but when it comes to men, within a short while of meeting you,i usually know if we are gonna date or not and if it's long term or short term.
Not that I am a beauty queen or anything but I believe in connection and reciprocal love. If I marry a guy cos he likes me then what happens to me?
He is happy cos he got what he wanted.I know I would grow to resent and dislike anyone I don't have feelings for, grow irritated at solicitous guestions. Worse still, if I met a man I loved I wouldn't think twice about leaving him.
Should'nt I just avoid all that drama now?
I know some men have succeeded in convincing women as to their sincerity through their consistent show of love but in my case that has never been the case. It seems to be more of trying to force my hand.
What's your take on my position? Too harsh? Or exactly what I need
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