I can be a drama queen sometimes.
And it's not my fault oh. As clear headed and logical as (I think) I am,i can as my sister says,be full of drama.
Now, There's this guy. Not ordinarily my type in anyway cos he's very tall and tall guys in my experience have long
d*cks which can be hell if you aren't tall like me. It feels like something is jamming into your womb when you have sex with them.
But I digress!
Meanwhile we've established that I have a job and a sister.lol!
Anyway he isn't dark,and y'all know I am a sucker for dark guys and not even that handsome,but he's very confident which makes me like him a lot. We are around the same age and if he wasn't married (yes! I said married) I would totally have dated him.
But then again if I could have him I probably wouldn't want him.
But I don't date married men and certainly not sleep with them. The only married man I can say is close to me now is ex number three (aka love of my life) and even with our history,i am not sleeping with him. We r kinda just friends though thats due to me in large part.He still wants me but my take is if "you didn't marry me so you could get to sleep with me forever (or till we r old and wrinkly and he can't get it up any longer" then why would you marry someone else and expect me to continue sleeping with you.
I digress once again.Ex number 3 does that to me.i did date him for 7 years.
Anyway, my Crush isn't speaking to me. And I am so bewildered cos I got no warning. I came back from a trip and he's totally freezing me out. The whole works! Blank stares,cold glances, muttered (barely legible) greetings.
I am not one to shy away from a confrontation so immediately I noticed I cornered him and asked, Simon! (let's call him dat shall we) what's the matter?you are being so cold?
He said it was nothing.And continued the same pattern.
A couple of days later,i cornered him via phone chat and asked again what the issue was?he said nothing!
Its been a week now and yet I can't make head or tail of it.
Could his wife who works out of town have sensed with that weird rival radar that women have, that I like him or that he likes me?
Cos we used to be very close though nothing sexual just a mild attraction.
Should I keep asking what the issue is or should I let him be?
Or should I stop even caring about what his reasons are?
We see each other often and often hang out together as a group so this is very awkward. I don't like Malice or grudges but it's driving me crazy not knowing what the issue is.
Post a comment below! Let me know what YOU think.