Thursday, 13 October 2016

True or not?

Hi guys!
So I came across this pic on Facebook and it caught my attention.

What do you guys think?
Is the writer right or wrong?
As for me I agree.

When a woman stops doing all that is in the first part, It's very possible she just doesn't care again whatever the man may or may not get up to, which means the man has messed up so much she's over him, or she's in love with someone else.
Then again the key word is " stops" so if she's not been doing all that before, that may just be her personality.
Not all women get jealous, cry over men, go through their phone a.k.a " snoop ( I spend too much time on Sdk) lol, text or call first.

Why should I carry man matter on top head like gala seller? And I suspect the writer is male sef.

Ehn ehn! Where is Harper sef? It's been ages I heard from him. I don't even know if he still visits this blog sef.
If you get to read this, Harper! Happy Birthday in arrears.
Sorry it's coming late.
No I didn't forget. Plus it was my brother's birthday too so I could hardly forget. I thought it unlikely you would visit this blog that day so no point on a shout out.

I miss everyone else too.
And I am in a mental place where I can write a little more often.  So Fingers cross.
Thanks so much to everyone who keeps checking in.
You all are the reason why I haven't deleted this blog yet, and why I still write posts. Because I know you love me so much , you will read it.
Thank you guys. Mwah!

Don't forget to post your comment below! Let me know what YOU think.

Sunday, 2 October 2016

Miss Melancholic

Hi guys!
Happy New month, Happy New week.
I pray October brings lots of sweetness to all your lives.
I know! I know! I have been MIA. And I have missed you guys.
I have been busy. And Courts have resumed so it is only gonna get even busier.
But manage this post abeg.
Get to know the melancholic side of me ( and why I do the things I do). 

Today we get to talk temperaments.
Specifically the melancholic temperament.
(Actually I wrote this post ages ago but there never seemed a right time to publish it. today seems like a good one. I feel like posting something just so you all know I have you in mind , I really do, and I appreciate everyone who has been checking in , but I literally have a pile of books, and luggage right in front of me. I have to read, and I have to pack, and watch tv at the same time so I can't really write a brand new post. 

 Soooo! My people! No be only boy/girl matter we suppose dey talk about nah. Have you ever wondered what kind of temperament you have? Or why some people behave the way they do?

There are four temperaments; Melancholic, Plegmatic ,Choleric  and Sanguine.

These are combined into twelve pairs called 'blends'.
Each person has one of these blends that fits how they are most of the time; it is constant
throughout life, not a shifting mood. Temperaments don't change according to circumstances; rather, they determine how we react to situations.

Me, I knew I was melancholic without anyone saying a word to me. 
But when I came read more on temperaments , I was a bit relieved. It really explained a lot. I have almost all of the characteristics.

So let's dig into my melancholia.
Melancholic people are emotionally sensitive, perfectionistic introverts.