The truth is that a lot of people sabotage what they have all in that bid for a perfect partner.
The irony is that perfection is subjective.
A man who cooks and loves to do household chores or pen flowery poems might be a woman's idea of perfection while to another woman nothing can be further from perfection.
In the same vein, a woman who is intelligent,has a good career going on can be a man's idea of perfection while I have met men who would love to marry 'stay at home' wives or at most a teacher who would have 'time' for the kids and to attend to the home.
Personally, I think all women and men have an idea in their heads of what their perfect partner is.
Unfortunately, some people (who are imperfect themselves) have an an idea of what a perfect partner should be and proceed to make life
hard and miserable for whoever is in their lives right now.
When I was younger my idea of perfection was a good looking,tall, romantic,intelligent, career driven guy. Someone whom I could talk strategies,forecasts and empirical analysis with.
As time went on I realised that while guys with those characteristics I wanted appeared perfect at first, there were some other vices which made them imperfect for me in the long run. After adding honesty, being faithful, caring,not jealous, not possessive,loves family,must love hismother, must not be a mummy's boy etc I realised that it's better for him/her to be perfect for you instead.
Cos when he's perfect for you, everything kinda falls into place even if he isn't conventionally perfect.
Anyway till date my ex remains the best guy i ever dated. And No! He wasn't very tall or extremely handsome. But he was perfect for me in that he had such a kind heart which is why we are still close till date. He was intelligent sha and career driven and that's always an attraction for me.
So guys!what do you think?
Do you agree with the statement above which I 'tiff tiff' from Esther's Dp yesterday.
That girl's dp is always full of fine fine boys and girls,and lots of quotes like this one.