True Talk

“But what I can do is paint you a picture of what you’ll never see when you’re with a guy who’s really into you: You’ll never see you staring maniacally at your phone, willing it to ring. 

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“Because here’s what guys don’t do if they can’t live without you: They don’t break up with you.” 
Yes Oh. They so don't.

You’ll never see you ruining an evening with friends because you’re calling for your messages every fifteen seconds. You’ll never see you hating yourself for calling him when you know you shouldn’t have. What you will see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. You’ll be too busy being adored.” 

  “If a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons he needs to take things slow, he will let you know that immediately. He won’t keep you guessing, because he’ll want to make sure you don’t get frustrated and go away.” 

Hmmmmmm. Maybe. 
 

 “I’m about to make a wild, extreme, and severe relationship rule: THE WORD "BUSY" IS A LOAD OF CRAP AND IS MOST OFTEN USED BY ASSHOLES. The word “busy” is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. Remember: Men are never too busy to get what they want.” 
I so agree. When they want sex they aren't busy. Amaka, gimme five jare.

 “We (men) would rather lose an arm out a city bus window than tell you simply, “You’re not the one.” We are quite sure you will kill us or yourself or both—or even worse, cry and yell at us.” 
Harper,Godwin and co. Over to you oh.

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he's just not that into you.” 
Hmmmmmmmmm. This oyibo people. How is that  possible?

“There will never be a good time, financially, to get married, unless you're Shaq or Ray Romano. But somehow people manage. If your man is using money as an excuse not to marry you, it's your relationship that's insecure, not his bank account.”
Yes Oh. 
 

 “Don’t spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you” 
Any guy or relationship  that turns a woman to "wonderer" is a bad idea. 

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 “A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the
woman he loves” 

Of Course. No relationship is easy. But if he wants to make it work,he will.

“Here's something else to think about: calling when you say you're going to is the very first brick in the house you are building of love and trust. If he can't lay this one stupid brick down, you ain't never gonna have a house baby, and it's cold outside.” 
Enough said jare.Word1

The End
So you guys should check out Esther's blog on www.thewayestherseeit.com.
She isn't just a pretty face oh. She is very articulate and writes rationally about a lot of issues and is also funny.
Some fab topics are: 
http://www.thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2014/08/tribalism-vs-racism.html

http://www.thewayestherseesit.blogspot.com/2014/05/rejection.html

Thanks for all your comments and opinions on yesterday's post. Whether man or woman, its nice to exchange opinions,experiences, and viewpoints on all the signs.

I divide my posts sometimes if they are too long to be one post and the divided parts are sufficient enough to be posts on their own.

Source ― Greg Behrendt, He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
 https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/822184-he-s-just-not-that-into-you-the-no-excuses-truth-to-understanding-guys